Why is it that when a straight person has a girl/guy crush, no one goes “Have you tried it? You know…with the same sex? No? Then how do you know you don’t like it. You must be bisexual. Try it and then you’ll find out!”
…But when I mention a mancrush - David Tennant, Uwe Kroger, Tim Minchin… - I get asked if that makes me bisexual? No, it doesn’t. And I know that I don’t like it with the opposite sex without trying just like you know you don’t like it with the same. I just don’t.
You see, it’s really quite simple: I’m gay, and if that’s an issue…bye bye! No I don’t want to try it with a man just in case I like it…I won’t, but thanks for the offer.